It’s never too late to start living Nine months ago if we met at a party and you’d asked me who I follow for wellness advice, I might have said Jay Shetty or even Matthew McConaughey. There’s no way I would have told you I follow Xaviera Hollander — a woman best known for her best-selling novel…

The Joy Of Sex After 50! — Another year has passed. I know I may be a little older but I’d like to believe I’m a whole lot sexier. Age has given me something my younger self could only dream about — sexual confidence. I believe I am living proof women over 50 can be sexy and…

How a fast-thinking mom got herself out of a very awkward situation — My husband and I are swingers. We are also parents. Since our son was little he has met many of our swinging friends and sometimes their children. However, we are all very responsible adults who NEVER let our lifestyle choices interfere with parental responsibilities. Over the years, there have been…

4 Books that Fueled My Inner Fire I’ve always been sexual. While I don’t believe anyone is born a hotwife, I can definitely say there were some early signs or some might say neon lights indicating the path I would eventually choose to take. One of my earliest recollections is…

For many women finding the right shade of lipstick is a lot like finding a needle in a haystack — I found it! Looking at my lips in the car’s makeup mirror, I press them tightly together, wiggling them from side to side to ensure my lipstick is everywhere. Smiling back at myself, I think, “There! They look perfect! Plump and juicy like the inside of a sun-kissed peach.” My…

How an exotic fruit become the symbol of sexual liberation — Symbols are everywhere. From the ancient Egyptians and Knights Templar to modern day fraternities and sororities, humans like to belong to groups of like-minded people. Most, if not all, of these groups use symbols to both identify and unite each other. But did you know those sexually liberated people who…

Insider Advice from a Swinging Hotwife Men, Men, Men… have I got news for you. I know you’re probably smart, successful and handsome. I’m sure many women consider you to be a good catch. They’re also likely seeking to be in an exclusive relationship with you. …

A poem in celebration of the Lifestyle — If Swingers had a season, it would be summer Summer is the season of joy and celebration Like a butterfly that sheds its cocoon Women transform from mothers and wives into goddesses Summer is the season to flaunt sexuality to men and women alike The season when clothing becomes a…

How sometimes getting fired can work to your advantage — We’ve all heard the saying — there’s no such thing as bad publicity. A quote first made famous by the illustrious American showman, P.T. Barnum. This week, ole P.T. …